Society does a good job at reshaping what and how a woman can be. Girls grow up with a distorted image of what it is to be a woman. As do men....
They have to be beautiful, have long legs, the perfect shaped bottom and breasts. Men require a 6 or 8 pack or a muscly chest and biceps. So much of the way we present ourselves to the world comes from photo shopped images and ideals of what it is to be a woman, which do not represent the everyday woman. It seems we are defined by how we look. When these ideals are pursued it does one thing and that is to bury our inner natural qualities. As a man, I can feel the exquisite natural qualities that women possess yet they remain hidden, behind the walls and layers of images, actions and comments.
Confidence does not come from the clothes you wear, your job, the colour and style of your hair or the size of breasts. True confidence, that X factor confidence, comes from knowing who you are.
Esoteric Breast Massage allows women to discuss, feel and embrace the most instinctive qualities that are natural to all women by understanding who they are and re-learning to deeply love themselves again, from the inside out. I know women who have Esoteric Breast Massage and over the years have experienced undoubted and exceptional change. To be with these women who know themselves, are confident, self-assured, expressive and capable, yet exquisitely feminine is wonderful to watch and feel.
For most of my life, I didn't consider that my breasts were even part of my body....
I was aware that they were there and aware that they were growing but never did I consider their significance.
I learned about breasts through the outside world, through the women around me and through the media. This mish mash of messages was confusing to say the least, ranging from small and insignificant all the way to large, sexy and revealing.
There’s a fundamental question about womanhood and how we feel about being a woman that calls to be answered. Why are young girls so anxious about becoming a woman and eager to avoid it or hide the signs of that transition? What happens to our relationship with our breasts as we experience being a woman, as we mature?
An Esoteric Breast Massage (EBM) session lasts just under an hour in time, but in experience it often feels like a long journey has been taken, and the difference between how the body feels at the beginning of the massage, and how it feels at the end is worlds apart.
A new standard offered for women through the Esoteric Breast Massage
In my experience it is a rare woman who can say she has grown up truly honoring of herself, able to embrace her breasts as a precious part of herself, let alone knowing they allow her access to an inherent depth of beauty so profound that once felt, provides an undeniable sense of herself and her worth from the inside out.
I was no exception to this and knew no woman who could say that this was her experience either.